smiles This is a casual post. Don’t read it if you’re a crybaby… but do read it if you’re wounded and need to know the truth :)

You were living your life, filled with misery, difficulties, obstacles, pain, sufferings — it became a part of you, made you strong, soft, and caring. Then you see another human facing just a fraction of your suffering.

You feel sorry for them. Now you’re not just sympathetic — you’re trying to fix their misery because of your empathy. You do it for no reason, even though they mean absolutely nothing to you.

You believe the world is still alive because of people like you, right? laughs Wrong! laughs

But hear me out — it’s not your fault.
You were born into this world. You had a really tough life. You were alone.

A child like you was manipulated and molded by society:
You have to be respectful to everyone.
You have to help everyone.
You need to care about everyone — because good people do that… and the world will do the same to you.

You have to forgive your friends insulting you, bullies messing with you… because you’re better than them. laughs Right?… Wrong!

But why?
Who did this to you?
How come others didn’t believe these lies… but you did?

Aren’t you weak?
Aren’t you lonely?
No one helped you, right?
You hate yourself, don’t you?
You want respect, don’t you?

The manipulation they fed you fixed everything in your mind.

They said:
“If you help others, God will be there for you.” → Fixes weakness.
“When you’re nice and caring, people accept you for who you are.” → Fixes loneliness.
“If you help others… you will receive help back.” → Fixes your helpless moments.
“If you’re nice… people will accept you.” → Fixes hatred toward yourself.
“If you’re nice and gentle… the world will respect you.”

All of it could be true… but only depending on where you stand in life.
Some people may never get it.

Now you know.
Because being nice exploited your life.
You lost your soul helping build other people’s dreams.

Being nice → you lost precious moments with people who never valued you.
Being helpful → you gave your time and energy to people who don’t burn for you the same way… people who use you, then throw you away once your usefulness expires.

You were honest and true… for people who will lie to you in a heartbeat just to keep you under control, steal credit for your work, and drain you like a big fuckin’ leech.

Your life lessons proved it:
Whatever they told you… seems to be untrue.

Now it’s time.
Let your natural instincts take over.
Give control to your monster — but always stay calm and focused.
Be dangerous… yet gentle and loving.

They told you good and bad is black and white.
But you know the truth: life is one massive grey area.

We act civilized — like good lil’ angels —
yet we hunt each other for fame, success, and power.

We are not so different.
Embrace your nature. Embrace your instincts…
yet always keep a tight hold on your morals.

You are still a monster.
But keep your monster tamed :)

Thanks for reading — if you made it this far without crying.

If this hit home… maybe it’s time to stop being the world’s emotional support animal.
Own your power. Protect your energy.
And never apologize for growing teeth.

Stay real.

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